I have been reading this book called "The Peacemakers" by Ken Sande. I have learned so much about resolving personal conflict. The book is about how to resolve conflicts Biblical. Here is a little snippet from the book:

"This approach to resolving conflict may be summarized in four basic principles, which I refer to as the "Four G's"
1. Glorify God - I Corinthians 10:31
2. Get the log out of your eye - Matt. 7:5
3. Gently restore - Galatians 6:1
4. Go and be reconciled - Matt. 5:24

If you are going through personal conflict or having trouble with a relationship(s) I highly recommend this book.