I know that there are a lot of marriages out there that have all kinds of problems. Sometimes the problems get so big that it seems the only way out is to end it in divorce. Let me encourage you to do something totally different. I believe it is important to pray for your spouse every day. I have found several books that I use and I give them as wedding presents. "The Power of a Praying Wife" and "The Power of a Praying Husband" by Stormie Omartian. If you are WILLING to make some changes these books can help give you some ideas about how to make a difference in your marriage (the key word is WILLING). Here is quote from the first book

"Lord, I pray that You would grant to my husband his heart's desire, and fulfill all his purpose. Help him to be all You created him to be". I hope this helps someone!